Adoption of the spouse's surname: history, debate and evolution

  • The practice of adopting one's husband's surname has historical roots in the Middle Ages as a symbol of transition of authority.
  • Currently, the change of surname upon marriage varies according to legal regulations, cultural traditions and individual preferences.
  • The modern debate on this practice revolves around preserving women's identity and adapting standards to gender equality.
  • Alternatives such as compound surnames or the husband adopting the wife's surname are on the rise as a reflection of changing social dynamics.

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The tradition of adopting the husband's surname when getting married has been a practice rooted for centuries in various cultures around the world. Although this custom has evolved over time and new generations have begun to question it, its history, cultural context and the social implications that it entails, remain topics of debate. In this article, we take an in-depth look at this tradition, from its origins to its current state, including individual and societal perspectives.

History of the adoption of the spouse's surname

The practice of adopting one's husband's surname has deep roots in the patriarchal traditions of the Middle Ages. At that time, a woman passed from being under the custody of her father to that of her husband, hence the symbolization of the last name change like a transition of authorityThis custom was also common in Western cultures to highlight the idea of ​​"family unity," where the man's last name represented the entire family.

During the Renaissance, this habit became more established as a social norm in Europe. Later, with the expansion of European colonies, this practice spread to other parts of the world, such as Latin America, the United States and some countries in Asia.

Legal and cultural implications

In many countries, adopting a married name went beyond being a cultural tradition; it also had legal implicationsFor example, in the United States, for centuries, women's identity, including rights such as property and citizenship, was closely tied to their marital surname.

Legal differences persist today from country to country. In some places, such as Greece, it is mandatory for women to keep their maiden name, while in others, such as Norway, there is the flexibility to create a new name. compound surnamesThis change reflects a greater awareness of the right to maintain own identity after marriage.

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Tradition or identity?

The debate surrounding this practice revolves around concepts of tradition and identity. For many women, the surname represents a fundamental part of their family legacy and professional, something that can be affected by changing it. However, there are those who see the change of surname as a way to consolidate the union with the partner and create a shared family identity.

An important aspect to consider is the influence that these decisions have on the offspringIn some countries, the father's surname is taken as the only one, while in others, such as Spain, both the paternal and maternal surnames are respected, safeguarding the footing.

Should women continue this practice?

It is common to find a diversity of opinions regarding the change of surname. While some women perceive it as a reaffirmation of their commitment, others see it as an unnecessary imposition of a patriarchal system. There are alternatives that are gaining popularity, such as compound surnames or even the option for the man to adopt the woman's surname, something still unusual but reflecting the change in the Dynamics of genre.

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The impact on professional relationships

For many women, especially those with established and visible careers, changing their last name can generate complications related to their professional identity. A notable example is the case of public figures such as Hillary Clinton, who decided to keep her birth name to preserve her projection in the political arena.

There are also women who choose to use their spouse's surname in personal contexts, but keep their birth name in the workplace to avoid confusions. This demonstrates flexibility in practice and how to adapt it according to the Personal needings and professionals.

The debate over whether or not women should adopt their husband's surname when they marry is much more than a matter of custom. It represents a clash between tradition and the search for one's own identity in modern society. Decisions can vary depending on the cultural context, legal implications and individual preferences, but the debate itself reflects a constantly evolving and more conscious society. gender equality.


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     Zuleyma de Candelario said

    I think it depends a lot on the type of relationship you have with your husband. When one gets married it should be for life, at least when I did, that was my thought; And I have been married for 20 years and I dazzle, to live all that remains of my life with the man I chose. And in my case I am proudly "from" Candelario. Now if you marry without having the strong conviction that you are with the man who will accompany you for the rest of your days, you will doubt whether you should use that "from". And you will see the question as a loss of identity, the identity is you and not a surname, when you truly love, you will see it as part of the dedication that is made to a man who deserves it.

        branditta said

      lady tell me now if your husband has been faithful in body and mind

          Mariela said

        And why did your husband not acquire your last name Mrs. Brenditta or is it that there is no delivery on his part ??? delivery is only on your part ma'am ??

        Mariela said

      I got the wrong name, the comment was for Zuleyma… ..of….

     macarena said

    I am 19 years old and I dream of meeting the man of my life. A real man, like the ones before. The day I find that man (who for now lives in my dreams, but I know that he will appear because I have faith that not all MEN have disappeared) as I said, that day I plan to give myself body and soul and I am determined to use her last name. I do not think that I will lose my identity, on the contrary, I will feel part of a new family that I chose and that I will continue to grow.

        branditta said

      The one who agrees to bear her husband's last name is a woman without the desire to overcome a woman is nobody's, maybe we are little animals to take from such a guy I LOVE my husband but that does not mean that I belong to him in body and soul. a person like him loved me and valued me also that was husava in those times where women were humiliated sums, now are other times:)

          Away said

        Brenditta you sound like a resentful girl to me. There is no need to offend anyone to express one's ipinion.

     Anabel said

    Dear friend, I do not believe that your identity lies in a surname. Too bad you believe it. I am 25 years old and I was married 2 years ago. I proudly wear my husband's last name. And I don't feel at all, demode.

        branditta said

      there will be a moment where you wonder:)

     Beatrice de Carolo said

    I am married and happy to use my husband's last name, as Zuleyma thinks, it is part of the dedication that one makes to the man they love and I believe that it should be that way.

        branditta said

      jajajjajaj that only the woman and the man surrenders noppp?

        Sybil said

      HELLO I love your comment !!! I believe that at the time of taking the married name you do not lose your identity, on the contrary, that indicates that now you are part of one more family !!! what is not like carrying my married name? My name is Sybila Gonzales Ushiñahua and my husband's last name is Vélez …… .I would really appreciate your help xk I would be very happy to have my husband's last name… thank you 🙂

     In disagreement said

    Well, but none of your husbands has changed their last names or bears the "DE" ... Can it be deduced from your comments that your men do not intend to live with you for the rest of their lives? Or do they lose their identity if they change their last name? or Could it be that they do not make a total surrender? ...

     Beatrice de Carolo said

    It has been a long time since I have time to enter, but today I see the Disagree comment, you may be right, but in my case, my husband would have no problem using my last name because his delivery is as total as mine, but only It could do it if the law comntemples it, but since it is not like that, we cannot pretend that men make a fool of themselves by saying a surname that does not legally correspond to them. Greetings

        branditta said

      azuuu how sure are you even if it seems like a lie there are still women like you it's a shame

     Zuleyma de Candelario said

    In relation to the comment of "Disagree". The question revolves around us, our husbands are not asked, in Venezuela it is legally foreseen that the woman be the one who bears the surname, not the man. By getting married we both accepted what our new status implied: married; If one of the commitments that my husband had assumed was to carry my last name, I assure you that he would have used it, as he has assumed all the other commitments.
    I think Beatriz de carolo's comment is very accurate, we have very similar opinions. Happy 2010!

     SANDRA said

    I THINK THAT IF ONE WANTS TO ADD THE HUSBAND'S LAST NAME IS IN THEIR RIGHT, AND IT IS ALSO IN THE SAME RIGHT NOT TO DO IT, MORE THAN TOTAL DELIVERY, IT IS BY STATUS THAT MANY WOMEN DO IT, BUT IT IS A RIGHT BUT NOT AN OBLIGATION, I DO PUT MY HUSBAND'S ONE, BUT WHEN I GET ANGRY WITH HIM, BECAUSE THEY WILL NOT LET ME LIE, THE HUSBANDS ARE NOT AN EXPERT IN SWEET HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, I TAKE IT OFF, BUT IT'S A QUESTION OF EVERYONE, AH BUT TO SIGN DOCUMENTS LEGAL THERE IF YOU SEE STAMPED IN BIG, THAT IF I CLARIFY, THE MAIDEN'S LAST NAME GOES BEFORE, BECAUSE I'M ALSO PROUD OF MY PARENTS LAST NAME, FOR NOTHING WILL I TAKE IT OFF. GREETINGS TO ALL.

     Maria said

    I totally disagree on using the husband's last name. This is a form of submission of the woman to the man, since nobody belongs to anybody; we come together to share a life together. It is also being ungrateful to our parents' last names, which is essentially who we are. Using the husband's last name does not make us better or superior, indeed, it would be ashamed of our last name. I have been married for a year and it never occurred to me to assume his last name. I proudly use my parents' last name

     ELENA , said

    QUESTION, BEFORE THE LAW, IS IT OBLIGATION, EITHER WITH THE "FROM" OR WITH A SCRIPT "-" ???

     Kailen of Escalona said

    hahaha Disagree's comment makes me laugh because I have raised that to my husband soooooooooooooooolo as a joke and he told me like this: Who said that I married your Dad ??? hahaha I married you !! and the truth is that I like all the comments a lot!

     Jorge said

    It is horrible to me that women, for so many years, have submitted to male power, using the husband's last name when marrying.
    I don't see this as an act of love. That would be if they both appended the surname of their partner. But it's not like that.
    The saddest thing for me is to see women who defend this position, according to which they sublimate women to a mere object of their husbands' possession.
    In the same way, it seems to me that the children should have both surnames, not only the father's, with the option of opting for the maternal U_U

     Jorge said

    and em love the "disagree" comment

     branditta said

    I loved your comment

     Elisa said

    In reality, it should be understood that a surname does not change your individuality, the decision to use it or should not rather influence what makes you feel comfortable, happy, if so, we should not show adversity to those who decide differently, the decision is something personal intimate of each woman. It must be for our satisfaction to do it without mixing genders machismo with feminisms or judging if you are fulfilled because you do it or not it is by decision of our own desire and fullness and respecting both opinions in the end it is about that we are happy with our actions and decisions, greetings ….

     Adriana said

    Brenditta. Bearing the husband's last name is not an obligation, it is a choice as my husband told me when we got married and I decided to adopt his last name. I did not lose my identity. Quite the opposite. I gained respect on his part, and on the part of our families. Nor do I feel like a woman without the spirit of improvement. I think that rather hits you with all those spelling mistakes. Or is it that he didn't have time to go to school? I have a Master in Foreign Languages. I also speak 5 languages ​​and still carry my husband's last name proudly.